Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
I agree with you, I suppose there’s no specific or guaranteed answers on how. I guess it’s more about setting your mind up and being prepared for the upcoming challenges and major changes you’re about to embark when you get here. For us Filipinas, we have to go through 2 major adjustments – adjusting to a married life and adjusting to a new and different country and being away from our family and friends, leaving our old life behind and embracing a new life in a new country. It’s not as easy as it sounds, I’ve been there, you will need a lot of growing up to do and it’s a learning process. So proper mindset is important to get on with the transition smoothly and less overwhelming.
I know since Jane arrived here UK in December last, she is not the same.
I think a case of 'sink or swim'. Jane is much stronger and now she has a full time job, this really is bringing out her best qualities.
I still 'mother' her, I really do love her to bits, I'm so lucky.