thats nice then a podium dancer in a nightclub, that will do good for you and your wondering about having done the right thing,never mind you thinking she is spending all the money on her family and thats all she wants you for , now your mind will be thinking what is she doing , seems to me that there is more to this story from day one, i and a few others did read what you had put on the first day, think hard about what you write and think hard what pole wifey will be dancing round
Money isn't everything, you know. But, if you're both satisfied with this arrangement ... then so BE it!Originally Posted by mistermatty
Just don't be "doing anything silly" [with that avatar of yours]!
weres she working- i am in manila on the 3rd july- perhaps i can make sure shes happy in her job for you
I strongly agree to that Sir Arthur! Money isnt everything...Money isn't everything, you know. But, if you're both satisfied with this arrangement ... then so BE it!
what is thread really about?
are you happy your wife doing that job, anything is better as long as your not send your money to her and she spends it on her family?
did you read the thread about how much money do i send?
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
Now I am a cynical bugger, but when she tells you that she is expecting, please work out your dates!! If you are happy letting her dance, so be it, but to make money up, from my experience, extras are offered.
Not sure if what you post is a joke!
You would serious let your wife do this job rather than support her till she can find a normal and safe job. (not saying that the girls that do this are bad or not nice people but would of thought they only do this coz they have no chose)
I would not let my wife or gf do this and would do everything I could to make sure she never as too
I’m sorry if this offends but is she the one who's made the mistake
This is really bugging me...im sorry but i have to be honest with you guys...I feel sorry for the wife.
Lets put it this way. You met your wife as a dancer in a nightclub, and you married her. Would you still want her to go back to her old job as soon as you leave the country?
C'mon guys this is just about money. you know yourself that you have enough to support your wife..what about your ego as a husband thinking that you can not support your wife financially, you need to have the balls mate! and now she is push to work, we dont even know if she really likes the job that shes got but she needs to. so she can support her family and stop accepting her husband's support so he wouldnt think that shes only after his money! This is sad.
Extras ????Now I am a cynical bugger, but when she tells you that she is expecting, please work out your dates!! If you are happy letting her dance, so be it, but to make money up, from my experience, extras are offered.
Not sure what you mean ??
to tell you all chaps and ladies too , i think this is some sort of windup , thats my opinion and extras steve.r means like does she do bricklaying or plumbing even electrics what about car washing , what do you think he means
couldnt agree more i think this is a big wind up or a very insecure man
Well if a girl is working as a dancer in a nightclub, extras refers to things the girls do to earn more money like entertaining the customers by sitting next at their table (something like what GROs do), might be dates outside the club (depending on the rules of the nightclub i think or depending on the price the customers would give as payment), and once they are out of the nightclub, everything the customers would want, whether a night or nights in bed with the girls or just a decent dinner date, the nightclub owners/managers/etc. doesn't have any control of it...so be careful in allowing ur wife with these kinds of jobs...
-=rayna.keith=-
...When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible...
I am speechless ....that these things go on extras , getting paid for sex ???Well if a girl is working as a dancer in a nightclub, extras refers to things the girls do to earn more money like entertaining the customers by sitting next at their table (something like what GROs do), might be dates outside the club (depending on the rules of the nightclub i think or depending on the price the customers would give as payment), and once they are out of the nightclub, everything the customers would want, whether a night or nights in bed with the girls or just a decent dinner date, the nightclub owners/managers/etc. doesn't have any control of it...so be careful in allowing ur wife with these kinds of jobs...
How do you know about this and whats a GRO ???
GRO = Guest Relations Officer
Well, ask the guys here, if not all, most of them know that!
...When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible...
i dont know these things rayna
hahahaha...i dont know these things rayna
...When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible...
but each to there own , if its what people want and its not effecting anyone then there is no problem
You may want to look up the club on the internet to see what type it is. Dancers can be just dancers, but I have no knowledge of sex in sleazy Philippine bars like Rayna does.... I'll get my coat
Keith - Administrator
get me a ticket and forget your coat just a umbrella will do
yeah..i have nothing against girls working in a nightclub or the like..i know most of them have no choice whatsoever...maybe mistermatty's wife have no other choice too..but that i don't know..i wish u all the best mistermatty and to ur wife..i hope u sort these money problems you are going through...
...When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible...
hahahaha..well i have no friends working in a nightclub...but i have guy friends who talked about these kinds of stuffs though especially during their single days...and some even when they're already married!...You may want to look up the club on the internet to see what type it is. Dancers can be just dancers, but I have no knowledge of sex in sleazy Philippine bars like Rayna does.... I'll get my coat
...When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible...
Hmm, I think everyone is being a bit too diplomatic here and being afraid to say it. Not all but a high proportion of dancers in bars and clubs in the Phil's and Singapore for that matter are hookers. I was in Boracay a few months ago, and my g/f pointed out which clubs and bars to avoid if I was going out for a drink on my own. Similarly, there are a handful of disco bars in Ermita where the dancing girls are hookers.
I'm sure these girls only do it because they have no choice, if they don't they won't eat or have a place to sleep. All I can say is that if my own g/f or wife was forced to dance to earn some extra cash, I would make sure that I supported her with enough so that she didn't have to resort to it.
sorry but i have to say this, what sort of man would let his wife work as a dancer? no matter how hard life gets i am sure there are other ways.. i have been following this thread and i really am so lost for words
God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
Open your eyes buddy, you never heard of prostitution, oldest trade on earth. I have been to these places and been propositioned by dancing girls, they give you the eye and aim for your wallet. I have had the chance to taste the pleasures in Phils, but didn't as I happy and in love with my mahal, but it's the same in Singapore, anyone been to Orchard Towers........go on, own up.
If this isn't a wind up and this is a real situation, pull your socks up man! Do you want a second hand wife??? for the sake of sending her a bit of cash, save her the temptation to seek money from men who are quite happy to pay nicely for a few hours enjoyment with your wife.
No brainer for me
I used to work in Singapore, and everytime me and my friends go to Orchard, especially walking towards the Hilton Hotel and other hotels there, you can see a line of prostitutes (most are Chinese who can't even speak English..but you can see Filipinas too) sitting on the benches there waiting for foreigners to pick them up for the night...
Same scenarios here in the Philippines..well not outside the hotels though, but along the nightclubs and bars..
...When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible...
I think he's just being sarcastic, he's got some issues, but he's just rubbing people up the wrong way.
again i am sorry to say this has got to be a windup , if it was true why aint he here defending himself or his partner, just my thinking
Yes Rayna, my experience too, both in Singapore and in Phils. I stayed in Makati for 2 nights while waiting for my mahal. I sat outside a bar just having a beer watching the world go by, and was approached by 2 girls offering me anything I wanted. For some girls it is necessary I suppose as their situation dictates, but for a girl with a English husband, it is not right is it.I used to work in Singapore, and everytime me and my friends go to Orchard, especially walking towards the Hilton Hotel and other hotels there, you can see a line of prostitutes (most are Chinese who can't even speak English..but you can see Filipinas too) sitting on the benches there waiting for foreigners to pick them up for the night...
Same scenarios here in the Philippines..well not outside the hotels though, but along the nightclubs and bars..
Mind you, some guys pay for that sort of thing
whether she has an English or Filipino or any nationality husband, it doesn't feel right at all letting her work in a nightclub as a podium dancer!
...When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible...
Sorry Rayna, you are right, that is what I meant.
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