Hi!
I dont know what to say.
Maybe you should start thinking that when you're wife comes to the UK and get a job she will definitely help you out financially or even pay you back slowly in every single penny you have sent to her. Plus a good wife... who makes your dinner, do your laundry, iron your clothes, all the woman's job.
You are now part of her family and before you married her you knew her family's situation.
Shes your wife now and you should not be thinking of making mistakes, you should have thought about it before marrying her.
You are in your first stage of marriage and your wife needs your support and in time she will give it back to you when you need it as soon as you both are together.
Thats just the way it is.
