indeed i do , well hope i doOriginally Posted by oOokhlareeceoOo
Well we Filipina are very loving and dedicated to their husbands and families. We try our best to do everything. But one of the most things that we want in return is attention when we sulk and understanding and support from any situation that may come in the future.
We do appreciate any single help from our husbands and we try to show it in every way we can.....hmmm, i hope you know wot i mean
Filipinas really need to adjust and husband need to understand!
We need your long patience.
Hi! Mistermatty, just got my attention on your post here… I didn’t get online at the forum but I’m reading some new post here when I’m talking to my buggy and for now we didn’t talk as he is busy doing his job. As what I can share you my opinion here is you are the one to talk to your wifey what really your situation there I know it is getting hard when we demand sometimes but I think when you explain and talk to it all to your wifey she will understand on it from you since you are on going for processing the visa… I didn’t get all the messages or all your post on here but I understand what you mean…. So far from now people live in a hard situation but it would be easy when you can understand each other or both husband and wife.
We Filipina think always for our family but I think we need to think our husband too coz they are part in our daily life. For me, not only husband will understand us coz we need to understand our husband too, since I’m still far from my hubby I didn’t demand or ask anything from him just be together in life soon, is the one im pray at all. It is hard to be far and getting far apart but still I believe and I understand him for all he did as he do the same here for me too, now we are still waiting for the right time soon not be in a hurry… but yes I did missed him much
…. Even we keep talking on here or do a call still good in person.
Family is always there for us whatever happen but our husband be the first to think now since we married them. Some people or foreign men think that we marry them because they can support us all or feed us all with the whole family. Well, I think it is depend for the husband or the man on how he show or treat our family before they marry us. If you treated your g/f or wife life a queen or princes and the family, well, it is not our fault coz our family think that you can afford all the things they want but we need to think as a wife not all the time that our husband can give everything what we want or need even the family .. They work hard as we work hard here and they as we eat on here.. Our lives is same if anyone can think on it.. they are their to support us and they are happy when they saw us happy too same as we married with the man we love we need to think what our future ahead when we are together with our husband. It is the time that we can say we are belong to each other for better and for worst not in a simple way that we break up coz we don’t have money to give or to send.....
Just do what you think is best mistermatty and good luck soon to your wifey's visa :xxgrinning00xx3:
regards, ladybug and Sim11uk
Yes she does show her appreication and bonks me silly but i refuse to be persuaded by a woman who uses that for her own gainWell we Filipina are very loving and dedicated to their husbands and families. We try our best to do everything. But one of the most things that we want in return is attention when we sulk and understanding and support from any situation that may come in the future.
We do appreciate any single help from our husbands and we try to show it in every way we can.....hmmm, i hope you know wot i mean
its never stopped you before.Yes she does show her appreication and bonks me silly but i refuse to be persuaded by a woman who uses that for her own gain
and do you really thing a couple of thousand peso will be able to satisfy her
wait till she gets to the UK and then for sure half of all you own WILL be hers
I don't look upon my wife as a 'trophy wife'Filipinas take their family and relationships seriously! It's the reason why we find them so attractive in the first place!
I sometimes tell my Vimvie we can't send money this time...just sometimes...I don't want us sending money to the point where we can't pay our mortgage..end up with no where to live...no job/income...I mean that's going to mean disaster for everyone, including her family...so I put my foot down if I feel that might be about to happen...! But chill man! Everything comes good given time...!
This is what the westerners think here, old ugly man with a miss world...bullshit!!!!!!!!
We are not all ugly old men, so stop saying that our wife's are trophys, that is so offensive.
We both look at eachother as equels:xxgrinning--
00xx3: Jane is 5' 6'' and great looking, so am I
Why does this 'money' thing keep coming up?
It never has with my wife, not every pinay sends money home either
then your the lucky onesWhy does this 'money' thing keep coming up?
It never has with my wife, not every pinay sends money home either
for some it is a problem or has been
everyone's circumstances are different so its up to the individual to say when enough is enough
thats below the belt , shes worth a lot more than 2000 pesos a month ...as for when she arrives in the UK half of what mate , i dont have a TV or a Car and travel everwhere on a bicycle with a trailer
I understand that, surely these details of money and babies should be brought up before marriage?then your the lucky ones
for some it is a problem or has been
everyone's circumstances are different so its up to the individual to say when enough is enough
Surely a clear understanding of money and where it comes from and what most of us have to do to get it, like work and work very hard for our pounds.
Many marriages go to the wall because of it, not just phil/uk marriages.
It is comparable to marrying someone with a drink problem, you either both accept the situation or decide to deal with it before you marry.
Lines should of been made in the sand, it is no good testing eachothers limitations after the event, you are married and that's it, you can't blame anybody but yourself if it all turns ugly
am i being nosey how you dealt with this issuethen your the lucky ones
for some it is a problem or has been
everyone's circumstances are different so its up to the individual to say when enough is enough
others may think your joking but i know differentthats below the belt , shes worth a lot more than 2000 pesos a month ...as for when she arrives in the UK half of what mate , i dont have a TV or a Car and travel everwhere on a bicycle with a trailer
and it just shows how tight you are- do you think she will go without a Tv????
steady on lads,
the wife said she does not want to sit in the chair all day long watching TV and wants to stay busy cooking , cleaning and making sure i am satsified in everywayothers may think your joking but i know different
and it just shows how tight you are- do you think she will go without a Tv????
i am thick or what then , so you say your missis bonks you silly but you wont be persuaded if thats for her own gain , well thats personal what happens in the bedroom frontroom bathroom stairs garden cellar kitchen and atice ups got carried away there sorry, just exploring my home for when emma comes
From what I can remember when Jane was doing her spouse Visa application, You have to show that you have £95 or there abouts, going spare every month to show you can support you wifeothers may think your joking but i know different
and it just shows how tight you are- do you think she will go without a Tv????
I, for one think that is far too low. We spend that alone on food shopping a week, and how about the extra heating costs etc etc etc
that £95 a month woudn't touch it
No wonder people on here are going down 'queer street'
£95 a week available would be much more like it.
Just as well live 'cheap Charlie' style in The Philippines with the sun
The left elbow works everytimeam i being nosey how you dealt with this issue
Making love with the wife is a a 2 way experince , if you both put in then you both gain a amazing feelingi am thick or what then , so you say your missis bonks you silly but you wont be persuaded if thats for her own gain , well thats personal what happens in the bedroom frontroom bathroom stairs garden cellar kitchen and atice ups got carried away there sorry, just exploring my home for when emma comes
so you have a bike and pull a trailer, is it a big trailer like a caravan sort of thing, that wont take much cleaning then if thats what your wife will do wen she gets here
so what you gonna do for the other 23 hours and 55 minutes of the day then with her?Making love with the wife is a a 2 way experince , if you both put in then you both gain a amazing feeling
just a small trailer that i can can get my weekly shop from Aldi in
thats true mistermatty what ever you both put in you both gain amazing things so instead of wondering what to send or do, the best thing is to talk to her explain your feelings and treat her as the women you fell in love with
You never told me you had met my missus ???so what you gonna do for the other 23 hours and 55 minutes of the day then with her?
now now sparky , getting nervous soon be the big flight
if you went to farm foods you would need a bigger trailer get more for your money
I think someone is having a joke on usjust a small trailer that i can can get my weekly shop from Aldi in
Now now boyz, play nicely
Far from it , i am being 100 % honest here .....just because my lifestyle is difrrent from yoursI think someone is having a joke on us
hi there gwap, do you holiday back to the phils
so why is your lifestyle so differant to ours then??? do you work , have bills and dont you have a partner who is from the philippines
Yes i do have bills etc etc , i thought you were making Ref to my bicylcle trailer with the joke comment .
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