Hi there!
I know you are a very confused. But i just wonna share with you my experience regarding choosing the type of visa we were supposed to get.

I was still on my annullment process and when i was nearly getting the finality i went to this agency called Manila Visa for a free consultation. I was told that the best way to get is the spouse visa. Wait till i sorted out my annullment, get married and apply for a spouse visa. In that case i can work right away as soon as i get in the UK. Not like the fiancee visa, they said that its the most tricky one and besides its going to cost you more from fiancee visa fee, plain ticket, 6 months not able to work, wedding expenses, pay the spouse visa fee, and all that lot.

Wedding in the Philippines is not that expensive. Mind you weve only invited our close friends and relatives. I think we have less than 50 persons in total. Spent about £1000 more or less!

And now i am just waiting for my new passport so we can apply for a spouse visa.

You just have to think about it very well which one would you really prefer.

Hope it helped a bit.