we are all differant like you and most others say arthur, if i had the choice i would love to marry emma in the phils , ie her family is there and this being her first and only marriage and i would love to honeymoon on a tropical beach also, but i cant so the next best thing is to have emma here with me, yes the cost is high but i have put aside for that plus my work i cannot be off work to long , so what is right for me and i hope emma is what we are doing right now, and congrats again arthur