wiVES problems :)

[joebloggs]

we live somewhere in plympton plymouth devon having no slept is really difficult but the soon i get a slept the 3 kids awake

sorry i cant remember how old your kids are, i know you have a baby and a 7yr old ?

are they going to school or nursary yet ? going to nursery wears little joe out

[malditako]

well that would be nice gparry but i want change from the £5

hahaha!!!,,,thats only enough for the bus fare going to derby

[pennybarry]

Hi Penny,
My wife laughed at your answer as she was in agreement with you concerning the weather
She has just told me, whilst laughing, that it will take two years to adjust to me
We have a great marriage, I just hope all the other men on here are enjoying wonderful days with their Filipina wives too.
You seem to be very happy also
Good luck

Thanks Apo!

I don't really need to adjust more here in the UK as I still feel nothing changed in my life too much.
I can still visit yearly my nearest and dearest in Pinas, not in debt what else?
Outgoing, enjoys travel, having my own freedom financially and being with friends if I want.
I am lucky as I have my understanding husband and allows me to do things that will make me happy as long as not harming our relationship. Nice feeling ! No much worries and enjoying life to the fullest.

It is always the weather that makes me feel like having a british mood. ahahhahaha

[aposhark]

i also will follow this thread with interest

myrna will be here in 2 weeks and i have to admit i am worried a little on how she will settle.

i have a lot of friends who want to help her settle but i keep telling them that she has to do it at her pace- she is painfully shy and some of my friends are rather full on

i had a thai ex who came over here and couldnt settle at all a number of years ago so ihave learned a few things from that expereince i would hope. but even so i just worry that she wont settle- the weather of course is a concern but thats something that i cannot alter

Hi sparky,

Rochelyn is still very shy after being here for over a year.
She is a quiet lady from the province and not at all "full on"
I hoped she would make more friends but she has found that the pinays are a little too "gossipy" in our town.
She is always laughing though, so I know she is happy.... or just laughing at me perhaps

Lots of love and attention and I'm sure Myrna will be ok.
Rochelyn sends texts via chikkatext most days to her family, make sure Myrna brings over a roaming enabled sim card so her family can reply to her regularly and inexpensively

It's the small things that seem to be important, like buying flowers and a bag of pork scratchings!

Best of luck to you both, you will wake up together everyday soon and your days will be loved up

[sars_notd_virus]

what are the adjustment for a wife and hus husband wife when she comes and lives with his husband in the Uk?

too much

[mistermatty]

i have a lot of friends who want to help her settle but i keep telling them that she has to do it at her pace- she is painfully shy and some of my friends are rather full on

Shy she is not mate , every time i saw her she would be pretty vocal and shout " Matt wheres Martin "

[Ross]

too much

well in that things am so lucky unlike yours maybe am wrong. i can give you books for it to read or toys maybe if youd like

[Ross]

sorry i cant remember how old your kids are, i know you have a baby and a 7yr old ?

are they going to school or nursary yet ? going to nursery wears little joe out

kids ages 1 and 10 months, 3 and 6 years old.. fun of buzzing all day dont get slept enough during night.dont know really..
the 6 years old is going but not sure which school seems on our area the were full at the moment:(

[Ross]

Thanks Apo!

I don't really need to adjust more here in the UK as I still feel nothing changed in my life too much.
I can still visit yearly my nearest and dearest in Pinas, not in debt what else?
Outgoing, enjoys travel, having my own freedom financially and being with friends if I want.
I am lucky as I have my understanding husband and allows me to do things that will make me happy as long as not harming our relationship. Nice feeling ! No much worries and enjoying life to the fullest.

It is always the weather that makes me feel like having a british mood. ahahhahaha

its the way your life pathway is guiding you anyway one day life would be so easy on us all and live like no worries at all

ingat lage

[stevewool]

wow 1 month and 10 months seems like no rest between

[Ross]

wow 1 month and 10 months seems like no rest between

well we just enjoy life thats what it is or simply means we are so productive
have you got any children then
sorry have to correct you we have 3 kids one months and 10 months is the age of our youngest lol

[sars_notd_virus]

wi can give you books for it to read or toys maybe if youd like

no thanks ross u cant give me books about ....am loving fiction and non fiction books and not related intooh and about toy?? why need one when i can easily get hold of my Boy scouts toggle

[sars_notd_virus]

wow 1 month and 10 months seems like no rest between

u got it steve

[Ross]

no thanks ross u cant give me books about ....am loving fiction and non fiction books and not related intooh and about toy?? why need one when i can easily get hold of my Boy scouts toggle

loving huh really. or was it size of the winky anyway thnaks for your replied much appreciated mate

[malditako]

kids ages 1 and 10 months, 3 and 6 years old.. fun of buzzing all day dont get slept enough during night.dont know really..
the 6 years old is going but not sure which school seems on our area the were full at the moment:(

i understand the hardwork...me and hubby struggle with one how much more having 4..gosh it will really drives me nuts i guess. goodluck ross lol

[-sillybilly-]

well we just enjoy life thats what it is or simply means we are so productive
have you got any children then
sorry have to correct you we have 3 kids one months and 10 months is the age of our youngest lol

you guys thinking of getting a nanny?
wow! 1 month and 10months old?

[sparky]

Shy she is not mate , every time i saw her she would be pretty vocal and shout " Matt wheres Martin "

That's cos she loves me too much

[Ross]

you guys thinking of getting a nanny?
wow! 1 month and 10months old?

sorry have to correct you we have 3 kids one months and 10 months is the age of our youngest lol

[Ross]

i understand the hardwork...me and hubby struggle with one how much more having 4..gosh it will really drives me nuts i guess. goodluck ross lol

3 kids not 4 maybe we wnt more

[Ross]

you guys thinking of getting a nanny?
wow! 1 month and 10months old?

cant afford lol if wre in ph maybe ye still husband dont like other to look after the kids

[Ross]

you guys thinking of getting a nanny?
wow! 1 month and 10months old?

cant afford lol if wre in ph maybe ye still husband dont like other to look after the kids

[Ross]

That's cos she loves me too much

seems your not obviously vocal about husban feeling eh??

[complex]

sorry have to correct you we have 3 kids one months and 10 months is the age of our youngest lol

i think u meant 1 yr and 10 months is the age of the youngest?

[malditako]

3 kids not 4 maybe we wnt more

sorry i have overlooked thought they are ages 1 year and another 10 months old....hahaha where s my comprehension gone?:

[purple]

Hi Ross,

I like babies and it can be a challenge. But as a single mum I have learned a lot from my mother that it is very easy to look after the little ones. Just keep milk in the fridge, lots of them.. good to last for 24 hours and if the baby moves then just give the bottle and it should soothe the baby fine. If baby is teething, then chilled milk is best as it takes away the pain, still if is not going to work, give the baby a little bit of iced water. Yes water and milk, rub the baby's back as well they like it, or a little massage on their feet and the end of finger nails. Talk to them too in a nice and firm way, the little angels these days are so smart that they can truly understand you if you speak to them.
And if you are not getting sleep, if baby is awake play with the baby until he/she gets tired (sure you will be tired too) then catch some sleep. The sleeping patterns will adjust in time. first 3 months is every 2 hours, and the next few months will be more. It is a matter of mind set and looking at your little ones angelic face and smile should take your worries away.

[mistermatty]

That's cos she loves me too much

Or your money ha ha

[stevewool]

think your self lucky i am 1 of 13 kids so whats 3 you dont know youve been born

[sparky]

seems your not obviously vocal about husban feeling eh??

Love her to bits mate
If you have read any of my many tedious posts that would be apparent


Apo- our ladies sound similar - I just hope that Myrna beds in as well and is as happy in a few months time

[Ross]

Love her to bits mate
If you have read any of my many tedious posts that would be apparent


Apo- our ladies sound similar - I just hope that Myrna beds in as well and is as happy in a few months time

lucky all the wife here then wish everbody feels the way you do mate which is i think they are

[Ross]

Hi Ross,

I like babies and it can be a challenge. But as a single mum I have learned a lot from my mother that it is very easy to look after the little ones. Just keep milk in the fridge, lots of them.. good to last for 24 hours and if the baby moves then just give the bottle and it should soothe the baby fine. If baby is teething, then chilled milk is best as it takes away the pain, still if is not going to work, give the baby a little bit of iced water. Yes water and milk, rub the baby's back as well they like it, or a little massage on their feet and the end of finger nails. Talk to them too in a nice and firm way, the little angels these days are so smart that they can truly understand you if you speak to them.
And if you are not getting sleep, if baby is awake play with the baby until he/she gets tired (sure you will be tired too) then catch some sleep. The sleeping patterns will adjust in time. first 3 months is every 2 hours, and the next few months will be more. It is a matter of mind set and looking at your little ones angelic face and smile should take your worries away.

thank for the advice ive been been with kids for almost 7 years now