Originally Posted by
somebody
You cant always gurantee a confident outgoing person in one situation will be a confident one in another.
Friends of the wifes who I have known in phill and Uk for example some are now air hostess/ who fly in regularly to the UK others care workers or workers on boats. The person in phill is not what you see when in the UK I have noticed on many occasions.
The Wife has commented for at least 50 percent of them have changed dramtically from what she and other friends remeber.
Moving a person in to another enviroment and culture can have a very dramtic impact.
Luckily we kept the texts, im's emails and photos and videos thoughout our realtionship and the change in the wife has been huge as you could belive.
How much is due to age/experince and to enviroment is hard to say.