Would you marry a bargirl ??

[Sim11UK]

Well I'm sure all types of personalities, work as bargirls, so it would be hard to generalise...if you clicked with someone & they with you, I'm sure many would find a way around their predicament?...who knows?...Seems many have done it?

As for sparky saying there are a lot of hypocrites?...Why?

[James Hubbard]

As for sparky saying there are a lot of hypocrites?...Why?

From his explanation, I can see 2 points

( 1 ) Sparky things that anyone answering "no" to the question of "would you marry a bar girl" equals being holier than thou and thinking that they are better than those who say "yes"

( 2 ) Sparky seems then to think that "don't knock it til you've tried it" applies in this case, and I and others are hypocrites, because never having had a daliance with said lady-type, one can not judge.

Of course, as I noted previously, I think that this topic has something of an emotional charge for him.

You know what? There are many things that I know I wouldn't want to do - that I have never done. Like sticking my head in the oven. If that makes me a hypocrite, then,

I am happy to be a hypocrite

[Steve.r]

Ok, now I have been to these places, sampled the delights and seen the sadness that also frequents these places. I have talked to, been chatted up by and left with such a lady. Now, that said, I have always treated everyone I have met with the utmost of respect and been shown that in return. We are talking about human beings here, not monsters, freaks or freeloaders. As i see it, the girls that work in the bars mostly have no choice, their situations have led them to working this way ie: selling themselves for cash.
Would I marry a bar girl, why ever not? You have to ask yourself if you can trust your girl. If you are able to look forward and not back, then you might even find a real gem. We have all made mistakes in our pasts, why let this cast a shadow over your future. Everyone deserves a second chance, even a 'bar girl'