Would you marry a bargirl ??

[raynaputi]

For me, personally, if worst comes to worst, like what purple said, i would never let myself work as a bar girl..i know how the society look at girls with that kind of job and i wouldnt let my family be in enough trouble and problem by working as one, especially if i already have a bf or i'm married..being poor doesnt mean they dont have a choice and it's not an excuse..they do have..they just chose the one where they cud get an instant bigger amount of money..would it be justifiable to rob someone or a bank because they are so poor and dont have money? I'm sure your answers would be no..anyway, it would really depend how much the guy loves and trusts the girl..if he says he trusts her 100% then good for the both of u..

[James Hubbard]

DO we need to drag the faith thing into this, you know it causes friction.

well....

2 points

(a) Yes, i think bringing faith into it IS important. It is pertinent if we are to consider all parts of the subject and all considerations. I shall not be pushing my "religious views" on anyone, but I shan't be having anyone disparage or dismiss them.

(b) Yes, of course religion and faith is divisive, but no less polemic are

--1 -- Your outright dismissal of it, even when it's relevant

--2 -- The polemic nature of this actual thread - "would you marry a bar girl" = polemic, yes, but it's still here.

Also ...

I take issue with the "drag the faith thing" ... you don't realise how disparaging that is to quite a few people on this forum. The language of "drag this faith thing" is

-Dismissive
-Disrespectful

to the people who hold a high regard for their faith.

Yes, it causes friction, but don't be misled ... using phrases like you did causes a lot more.

[junior02]

Would you marry a young lady who worked in the Nightlife industry ?

Thoughts , are they any diffrent or just trying to survive ??

Some echlons of Pinnoy Society look down at them as though they are the rejects they dont want ...

Thoughts ??

Thoughts. Why,,,, are you thinking of marrying one yourself???

[Sim11UK]

well....

2 points

(a) Yes, i think bringing faith into it IS important. It is pertinent if we are to consider all parts of the subject and all considerations. I shall not be pushing my "religious views" on anyone, but I shan't be having anyone disparage or dismiss them.

(b) Yes, of course religion and faith is divisive, but no less polemic are

--1 -- Your outright dismissal of it, even when it's relevant

--2 -- The polemic nature of this actual thread - "would you marry a bar girl" = polemic, yes, but it's still here.

Also ...

I take issue with the "drag the faith thing" ... you don't realise how disparaging that is to quite a few people on this forum. The language of "drag this faith thing" is

-Dismissive
-Disrespectful

to the people who hold a high regard for their faith.

Yes, it causes friction, but don't be misled ... using phrases like you did causes a lot more.

Well, you haven't been around here, for a while & I thought the same as Steve.r
It kicked off here recently, from an innocent thread started & regulars are avoiding the "R" word.

Nothing to do with personal beliefs, just we're tired of it.

[James Hubbard]

Well, you haven't been around here, for a while & I thought the same as Steve.r
It kicked off here recently, from an innocent thread started & regulars are avoiding the "R" word.

Nothing to do with personal beliefs, just we're tired of it.

so what's the official drill now - just so i know ...

do we just make zero mention of religion now?

[Sim11UK]

You can mention it if you want, you might just get a few groans, that's all.

[James Hubbard]

You can mention it if you want, you might just get a few groans, that's all.

That would be the standard response anyway!

[Steve.r]

You can mention it if you want, you might just get a few groans, that's all.

+1
Yes, mine was a groan. AND, my comment instantly got the reaction I was expecting.

[James Hubbard]

+1
Yes, mine was a groan. AND, my comment instantly got the reaction I was expecting.

I am glad I could help then

Oddly, if you can set up an apologetic against yourself, then does that not cancel out your point of view

[Steve.r]

I am glad I could help then

Oddly, if you can set up an apologetic against yourself, then does that not cancel out your point of view

Hmm, cant see it myself James.

[James Hubbard]

Hmm, cant see it myself James.

Rather strengthens my theory then!

[malditako]

it is the foundation of their faith by surviving the situation they are in since they want to have a better lifestyle (we call it being materialistic) and some would work as a nanny abroad to have ends meet, i prefer the latter if I don't have a choice

for me choosing a lifestyle doesn't mean you're materialistic...its how you measure the standard of life u want for yourself...and its not about faith in GOD..its about the kind of work they want to do.

[Arthur Little]

DO we need to drag the faith thing into this, you know it causes friction.

I [think] we're probably safe enough at THIS hour of the night, Steve ... it's past Apo's bedtime! Besides, by the time he wakes up and "bites the cherry", there'll most likely have been a few more posts on this topic to skim over the dreaded 'faith' word.

[James Hubbard]

I [think] we're probably safe enough at THIS hour of the night, Steve ... it's past Apo's bedtime! Besides, by the time he wakes up and "bites the cherry", there'll most likely have been a few more posts on this topic to skim over the dreaded 'faith' word.

Hahahahahaha

good point!

and btw to a previous poster ... i did read the posts before that stirred up dissension ...i read them prior to coming back here

[pennybarry]

For me, personally, if worst comes to worst, like what purple said, i would never let myself work as a bar girl..i know how the society look at girls with that kind of job and i wouldnt let my family be in enough trouble and problem by working as one, especially if i already have a bf or i'm married..being poor doesnt mean they dont have a choice and it's not an excuse..they do have..they just chose the one where they cud get an instant bigger amount of money..would it be justifiable to rob someone or a bank because they are so poor and dont have money? I'm sure your answers would be no..anyway, it would really depend how much the guy loves and trusts the girl..if he says he trusts her 100% then good for the both of u..

I'll be kicked off by the whole clan!
TBH no one in the clan enters bar and japan.
But I respect those who did as they have their own principle in life. Some makes it as stepping stone to their goals in life as I believe there are many white who still marry bar girls and change their life for good. We have also some actresses who came from bar and now good earners by acting. So they really deserve chances.

People and society are sometimes cruel! Even you came from a well respected clan, they will put you down.

I cannot blame those bar girls as I didn't feel how hardship their life was and their family background as well. I am sure if they have good chances, they will never do it. I tried to ask some people before and honestly, I understand some of them

[KeithD]

....you know it causes friction.

That reminds me... I need lube ...

[sparky]

It's quite apparent Who has lived in SE Asia and has travelled round therE and those who havnt

[sparky]

So how does it feel living off the earnings of girls who sell sex for money ??

Fantastic thanks - you should try in sometimes. Beats working and the perks are great

[bornatbirth]

It's quite apparent Who has lived in SE Asia and has travelled round therE and those who havnt

can you shut up or put up and say what you really think!, im getting really tired of your suggestions.

Fantastic thanks - you should try in sometimes. Beats working and the perks are great

theres a pimp in the forum

[Steve.r]

That reminds me... I need lube ...

Better to buy in bulk Boss, anyone on this thread have any links?

[James Hubbard]

It's quite apparent Who has lived in SE Asia and has travelled round therE and those who havnt

Another little one-liner laced with all sorts of meaning!

Just so I can show my hand, I have been to the philippines 4 times now, lived there for a year - and am married to a Filipina. I will be going back again for another month this October!!!!


I have also travelled around South East Asia - Not cruising for sex, but I was with my wife.

So ....

Not all people who disagree with your personal choices are ignorant, untravelled, and uncultured dolts (which was very much implied by the quoted post) thank you very much.


I still hold to the principles in which i believe...


Regarding feeling

great

being a "pimp" ... hmmm Not sure i believe what I am reading.

I am beginning to get a clearer picture of your character aside from the supercilious one liners you put here.

:(

[joebloggs]

It's quite apparent Who has lived in SE Asia and has travelled round therE and those who havnt

what ever your misses has or hasn't done, or whatever you have or haven't done its your life

take it easy, everyones circumstances are different

I've been married long enough to a filipina and seen enough to know the facts..

[Englishman2010]

what ever your misses has or hasn't done, or whatever you have or haven't done its your life

take it easy, everyones circumstances are different

.

That sums up how I feel about this thread and the bitching. What anyone else does is their business, no one should judge others who have a different point of view to their own. If everyone was exactly the same life would be very dull.

So come on, respect each others point of view, act like grown ups and stop the cat fights.

[KeithD]

I was married to a strange Filipina bar girl once .... wow did she have balls...

[raynaputi]

I was married to a strange Filipina bar girl once .... wow did she have balls...

[Dedworth]

Another thread staggers towards its inevitable locked conclusion

[James Hubbard]

Another thread staggers towards its inevitable locked conclusion

I'm surprised that fate hasn't been sealed earlier! lol

[Arthur Little]

its inevitable locked conclusion

... de(a)dLOCK?

[Dedworth]

... de(a)dLOCK?

Go on Arthur turn the key !

[fred]

That sums up how I feel about this thread and the bitching. What anyone else does is their business, no one should judge others who have a different point of view to their own. If everyone was exactly the same life would be very dull.

So come on, respect each others point of view, act like grown ups and stop the cat fights.

Well said... I fourth that!!

At least the religious nonsense seems to have has ceased..Wonder how long that will last?