is there such a perfect relationship?

[rani]

where are you staying? i am in manila.. maybe we could chat some time if you're bored as i sleep late at night

[raynaputi]

hey rani, where in Manila are u?

[-sillybilly-]

where are you staying? i am in manila.. maybe we could chat some time if you're bored as i sleep late at night

I actually live in Pangasinan but i go to Manila in Caloocan now and then. The last time i was there was when i went to Manila Citihall end of May.
So where abouts you in Manila?

[pennybarry]

Thank you ate Penny!
That is one thing that i couldnt do...showing off and pretending that im a happy person in a perfect relationship which is really not. And this is why im here. I know there'll be good and bad but sometimes when i know its too much i ask for help and advise. Who knows i might be wrong or not. But atleast i had gather some thoughts before i say something or make some actions before i regret at the end of the day. Im sick of being childish, spoiled little cow, tantrums when i dont get what i want. This is my second marriage and i want it to work.
But there are times that i feel like im running out patience so sometimes i needed to speak up but no body is free to listen....and thats one thing thats frustrates me and i couldnt even express my feelings to my husband because he knows he was right and im the one being silly and stupid.
So i end up apologizing just not to make things worst.
I know theres a few in this forum who has been through what im having but im glad they understand. The paranoia, the loneliness, the missing, bored and all that lot. Im happy that its not just me.
Thank you ever so much!

Don't apologize if he was wrong. Let him realise and give him time and space to think what he have done.
There's nothing wrong in answering back rather than saying yes to him all the time.

[shine]

I hope things will be okey
I think you should have a one on one talk with your hubby, be honest with your feelings but speak slowly don't shout
I know things are not always good,are not always perfect ,let it pass and be strong to overcome it
and pray to god always..