Did I Marry the Right Person????..or Am i with the Right Girl or Guy???

[sars_notd_virus]

Looking for Mr or Miss Right is not easy
and when you think you found the right person ,..you may have doubts..having doubts of who you are marrying is not only normal,having doubts is healty.

considering factors:
1.happiness and emotional support -you cant expect your partner to make you happy all the time buyt being with the right person can bring happiness and a sense of personal strength to your life.(near or far)
*you will know u r with the right person when you feel support and encouragement about your own growth both emotionally and intellectually.

2.Affection, Love, and Sex
*It is important that the person you marry/ or in relationship with is someone who is understanding and agreeable to your wants and needs when it comes to sex and affection.(big boys and girls shld know this...meaning respect,love,hugging and sexually compatible)

3.Communication, Goals, and Values
You and the right person will have similar goals and values in life.
*Having different likes and different opinions is okay as long as the two of you agree to disagree (mind u it is healthy)
*Finding the right person doesn't mean that the two of you won't have difficulties or differences to deal with.

4.Trust and Honesty
The right person is honest with you.
he will never snoop on you..monitor or spy on you every 10mins

5.Red Flags in Your Relationship
if you realize that there are red flags or problematic issues in your relationship, don't ignore them or delude yourself into thinking that the red flags aren't that important or that someone you love will change.

and dont forget:
***it does take more than LOVE to have a successful marriage/relationship ***
and defnitely LIFE is not a box of chocolate you never know what you're gonna get so have your eyes open when you get in or find your mr miss right




So Filipinas and British guys??? Are you with the right person now????
If not just f*** it and leave ....you deserve to be happy

[James Hubbard]

well posted SNV!

[raynaputi]

good post mari!

[rani]

remember.... Marriages are made in heaven. But, again, so are thunder, lightning, tornados and hail

[DaveUK]

And the weather stuff is the safest of the bunch for us blokes to handle!

[bornatbirth]

i think my wife married the right guy

[KeithD]

i think my wife married the right guy

Have you met him yet?

[bornatbirth]

Have you met him yet?

whenever i look in the mirror, hes a very lucky guy, i often wonder what she sees in him

[triple5]

Never been married, so there's never been a dilemma for me

[joebloggs]

i often wonder what she sees in him

we're all wondering that

[sars_notd_virus]

Never been married, so there's never been a dilemma for me

hmm not about marriage....question is are you with the right person now????

[sars_notd_virus]

i often wonder what she sees in him

and does she believes you??

[bornatbirth]

we're all wondering that

must be my tall good looks and charming personality

[James Hubbard]

must be my tall good looks and charming personality

and HUGE .... feet

[stevewool]

did i marry the right person urm no urmmmmmmmm nooooooooooo urmmmmmmmm i hope so this infact i know so this time

[aromulus]

whenever i look in the mirror, hes a very lucky guy, i often wonder what she sees in him

[James Hubbard]

bwahahahahaha

i think that would be called "pragmatic"

[-sillybilly-]

remember.... Marriages are made in heaven. But, again, so are thunder, lightning, tornados and hail

I agree!

[-sillybilly-]

Never been married, so there's never been a dilemma for me

you're missing half of your life...

[triple5]

hmm not about marriage....question is are you with the right person now????

Yes

[Ladybug_sim]

Nice post yes for me coz im happy with the man i have in my life now even still far apart

[pennybarry]

It subsides from typoons, earthquakes etc if you can make a better decision for yourself.

If you can make your partner smile everyday then that is great!

[Doc Alan]

This is an excellent post Mari which shows a great maturity, thanks for your time in composing it I would give you a rep but am unable to do so (probably my lack of skills on the computer)

[sars_notd_virus]

If you can make your partner smile everyday then that is great!

correct ate pen...
(i love you)...(sorry)...(thank you) can do wonders and melts a persons heart and make us smile

[sars_notd_virus]

This is an excellent post Mari which shows a great maturity, thanks for your time in composing it I would give you a rep but am unable to do so (probably my lack of skills on the computer)

thanks friend ...just hit the star button

[sars_notd_virus]

Nice post yes for me coz im happy with the man i have in my life now even still far apart

thanks dear,...thats the most important thing ...you are happy

[Doc Alan]

thanks friend ...just hit the star button

There isn't one ...and no one can enlighten me ! Am I the only one with no star button ? At least 2 members have tried to give me reps recently but also to no avail ...

[sars_notd_virus]

it doesnt matter friend...and hey,lots of nice pictures on ur trip ..am glad ur having a nice time happy for u

[liane]

Yes he's the right man for me and I love being married with him

[sars_notd_virus]

There isn't one ...and no one can enlighten me ! Am I the only one with no star button ? At least 2 members have tried to give me reps recently but also to no avail ...

hahaha thanks friend i think u managed to give me a REP pt