for english daddys :)

[Ross]

oh no not training them at all it just the wake up crying and asking milk..we did feed them before going to bed

[KeithD]

oh no not training them at all it just the wake up crying and asking milk..we did feed them before going to bed

So the kid is controlling you, not the other way round. You're supposed to be the big bad boss. The kid doesn't need feeding, it's just a form of attention seeking that needs to be stopped. Easy enough. Next time the kid wakes up in the night you go in the room, sternly say no and go back to sleep, then let kido cry as long as it takes for him to fall back to sleep. It takes a few nights but the message sinks in eventually.