It could have been any one of us Dave, we all feel the same. What a sad bunch we areOriginally Posted by DaveUK
Could of written that myself!
It could have been any one of us Dave, we all feel the same. What a sad bunch we areCould of written that myself!
It’s made me feel better reading this I’m not the only person going crazy here.
There are loads of us doing the same thing
Yes mateIt’s made me feel better reading this I’m not the only person going crazy here.
There are loads of us doing the same thing
spurred on by the knowledge that there is an end in sight
and thank God, my life can resume again in October when i go there, and November when she comes here
**sigh of relief**
One week the guys are all scratching each others eyes out..... the next week they are all hugging and kissing each other
Keith - Administrator
Just like a proper marriage
If you want your dreams to come true ...... first you have to wake up
Not long now James! What is important right now is you know that your love one is always there waiting for you and at the end of the day you sigh and say " another day is gone" means you have survive and days are coming pretty fast!Yes mate
spurred on by the knowledge that there is an end in sight
and thank God, my life can resume again in October when i go there, and November when she comes here
**sigh of relief**
I'm a cruel and heartless bitch but I’m damn good at it!
Fancy a kissOne week the guys are all scratching each others eyes out
Thanks for that encouragementNot long now James! What is important right now is you know that your love one is always there waiting for you and at the end of the day you sigh and say " another day is gone" means you have survive and days are coming pretty fast!
JH
James speaking about kiss! Remember ive said that i will give the delivery boy a kiss if i got my visa?Fancy a kiss
Well it turned it out that i gave a hundred pesos for his snacks....couldnt imagine myself kissing an old sweaty man! (peace!
He looked knackered and lookup from all the deliveries.
But i did say thank you!
I'm a cruel and heartless bitch but I’m damn good at it!
hahahahahaha!
that's funny
very good, you are so excited
!!!!
Just keep everything positive James. Make yourself even more busier and the days/months will pass by so fast, you'll never know that you and your mahal are in each other's arms. It is not easy, life and relationship never will.
Hoping all the best of luck and happiness for you and your mahal. In few days time it will be august and soon the "ber" months comes in
Life as we make it
well i am happy emma has one more sleep there and the next sleep will be with me , if i let her
You mean christmasIn few days time it will be august and soon the "ber" months comes in
I don't even have work to distract me. Also he has lost his phone in the storm, and there are problems with the computer shop so I don't hear from him very often. What helps? Immersing myself in music. I play keyboard, violin and recorder and entertain at care home/active living homes. Seeing the frail and elderly smiling and singing helps put a smile on my face too!
Hi English Rose
I think you answered your own question there - ....
do the thing that puts a smile on your face
You've seen me in the bath????
Keith - Administrator
James,
I think we all feel like this when we are waiting to be with our dearest one again.
I got through my lonely days by working as many hours as I could as I am self-employed and every hour helps financially.
Of course this forum was, and still is, a great outlet to give and receive help, as well as the occasional rant.
I also jogged a lot. I mean about five times a week, sometimes up to 10 miles at a time.
Jogging gave me the time and space in my mind to concentrate on the reasons for working and the future benefits from these endeavours.
I found that I could run easier when I thought about my plans for my dear mahal and what her dreams would be.
It was better for me to think like this rather than think of her softness and beauty, as that could have put me in a downward moping spiral
Keeping busy and being as optimistic as possible is the key, I feel.
Hehe
thanks for that Mike! I'm not yet fit enough to jog, but maybe I'll start walking!
I really appreciate your words ... very very useful indeed
James.
Go out James!!! u still got a life of your own
i know TIME and WAITING could be the worst enemy of human lolz
(it wont be long though 2months and you will be with your wife ,...so u got more reason to smile and be even more happier)
cheers!!
''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''
yeh mari, you're right!
it's just that 2 months seems like a long time
but ... in saying that ... it's actually a week and a day since i posted my "good news" that her visa was granted, so ... maybe time does go in quickly hahaha!
grr
double post again... sorry
its does go quick james before you realize its here
yes James..it will be as quick as posting it twice lolz
''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''
haha thanks steve and mari
i think one of the biggest problems we all face is that your/our UK friends dont understand.Which means that they dont undertsand your problems like the others on forums like this do - therefore i guess we use the forum as a support network for our problems and troubles with our asian partners
if the friends have never been to the philippines and experienced the culture they cant see what we get excited about .
however on the flip side- our support network on here does mean that you make new friends
Completely agree with you Sparky, that's why we are all here as we all experience more or less the same problems. If our mates knew the answers to our problems and could advise on immigration matters, none of us would be here.
..and yes forums are a great way to make new friends with people who have similar experiences and interests.
Get yourself some intelligent mates then...............
Keith - Administrator
wel said sparky lots of people dont understand , only the few that are intrestedi think one of the biggest problems we all face is that your/our UK friends dont understand.Which means that they dont undertsand your problems like the others on forums like this do - therefore i guess we use the forum as a support network for our problems and troubles with our asian partners
if the friends have never been to the philippines and experienced the culture they cant see what we get excited about .
however on the flip side- our support network on here does mean that you make new friends
after reading this thread anybody else feels likethemselfs?
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
My wife is away so I thought I would come on here to cheer myself upgona listen to some Morrisey instead
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