Hi Steve I understand what you've been through.
With my situation, he was divorce and i was annulled but before our wedding we didnt have the prenuptial party and agreement.
We are prepared to whats going to happened ahead of us but we feel that were strong enough to get through it once again and we'll work everything out and fix whatever needs to be fixed.
My husband didnt wonna make such agreement although his ex-wife was a pain during the divorce but he wants to take the risk and not to offend me.
He said he loves me unconditionally.
Thats all that matters.