As I've said in other posts if you buy a lot of gifts and send a heap of money - more than they've ever been used to - you're just giving the impression these things are on tap. It's only natural she'll always expect it, whether she's here or at home.
I disagree
Needs is different with Pleasure
needs=A condition or situation in which something is required or wanted
pleasure= A source of enjoyment or delight
*a woman needs a nice quality boots to wear in a crappy weather like here in the UK*