Quote Originally Posted by ghee101 View Post
he blocked me on facebook and ym. i am not allowed to communicate with him, not even text him on the phone. i am only allowed to CALL him up till september 06 to confirm that i am going to him.
In all the years I've run this site that is the last thing you'd do in a relationship, that only happens when it's finished.

i WAS a bad girl. before
As long as you've learnt from the mistakes and are a better person, fine.

we fight everyday.
This is often quoted as a problem with a LDR, it's not, the vast majority of LDR's go smoothly and so they should. If you argue every day now, that is unlikely to change even when you're with the guy. So if you want a miserable existence then continue on this path. People get tampo in LDR's, yes, but most of the time it's over a misunderstanding.

....and he ask me to go to him, on my own efforts. that'll show him that i am really serious and committed.
He's the one that has to prove that to YOU, and to the EMBASSY as well if you've ever any hope of getting a fiancee/spouse visa. Asking you to go into debt in thr Philippines just for him is one hell of a selfish act and shows his lack of caring for you.

..... people that age in london share 50-50 in everything ....
No they don't

my stuff are all for sale now.....
Keep it, don't get rid of you're life for some waste of space, plenty of guys out there that will treat you right.

....and you have a good friend who talks sense and you....