One Month!!

[aromulus]

i'll take things slowly, one step at a time. i was so angry yesterday, after talking for 6 hours, i said i give up! made us both even more depressed the next 24 hours. he said sorry and wants me there on xmas.

Wrong, dear.....

You have to be firm, and tell him that it will be up to him to visit you at Christmas...

You are just making excuses for him, he is winning by making you feel inferior...