One Month!!

[ghee101]

In all the years I've run this site that is the last thing you'd do in a relationship, that only happens when it's finished.

As long as you've learnt from the mistakes and are a better person, fine.

This is often quoted as a problem with a LDR, it's not, the vast majority of LDR's go smoothly and so they should. If you argue every day now, that is unlikely to change even when you're with the guy. So if you want a miserable existence then continue on this path. People get tampo in LDR's, yes, but most of the time it's over a misunderstanding.

He's the one that has to prove that to YOU, and to the EMBASSY as well if you've ever any hope of getting a fiancee/spouse visa. Asking you to go into debt in thr Philippines just for him is one hell of a selfish act and shows his lack of caring for you.

No they don't

Keep it, don't get rid of you're life for some waste of space, plenty of guys out there that will treat you right.

....and you have a good friend who talks sense and you....

he still insisting he's right. i hate this. i know im wrong in a lot of ways, being immature but is there anything i can hit my head right now to wake up?

i know i'll read, "i told you so" in the future but i cant get myself to let go for now. i have high hopes, i have faith. i hope if i start to pray now, i'll get my answer soon.

i appreciate all comments. never hold back even if you think it'll hurt. i want to know how you see it.

[Steve.r]

he still insisting he's right. i hate this. i cant get myself to let go for now.

i appreciate all comments. never hold back even if you think it'll hurt. i want to know how you see it.

Does what I highlighted in red not tell you something Ghee??
Is this the first western guy you have had a relationship with? if so, is it the thought of losing this 'westerner' and the prospect of being here in the Uk what you are scared of losing more?
Ok, that sounds a bit hard on you, but remember, there are lots of NICE guys here who will visit you in Phils, and give you respect and love. This guys is fooling you, don't you see that?
We want to help you so you dont make more mistakes, but first you have to help yourself. Be strong ok.

[stevie c]

Does what I highlighted in red not tell you something Ghee??
Is this the first western guy you have had a relationship with? if so, is it the thought of losing this 'westerner' and the prospect of being here in the Uk what you are scared of losing more?
Ok, that sounds a bit hard on you, but remember, there are lots of NICE guys here who will visit you in Phils, and give you respect and love. This guys is fooling you, don't you see that?
We want to help you so you dont make more mistakes, but first you have to help yourself. Be strong ok.

Ghee take steve r advice & dump this loser its the only way you are going to move on to better things in your life