Does what I highlighted in red not tell you something Ghee??
Is this the first western guy you have had a relationship with? if so, is it the thought of losing this 'westerner' and the prospect of being here in the Uk what you are scared of losing more?
Ok, that sounds a bit hard on you, but remember, there are lots of NICE guys here who will visit you in Phils, and give you respect and love. This guys is fooling you, don't you see that?
We want to help you so you dont make more mistakes, but first you have to help yourself. Be strong ok.