Guys i really need advice...

[joebloggs]

we got married june 2008.. 2 years now!

i think if you apply for a visit visa, good chance it will be refused
when did you apply for your spouse visa ?
why didn't you appeal against the decision ?

how long had you known each other before you married?
how many times had you met before you were married?
and how many times since you've been married have you met?

what exact reasons were given for the refusal ?

if your husband is not working, is he claiming any sorts of benefits, invalidity benefit?

does your husband own the house he lives in, or rents etc ?

and does he have any savings in the bank etc???

[pennybarry]

Did you try to make an appeal? Did you meet his friend personally?
How come your marriage is not legal?

[-sillybilly-]

Hi Bher!

When did you apply for a spouse visa and what was the reason why you were refused?

Because if you are going to apply for a visit visa it is very likely to get a refusal and that means its another waste of money and effort.

Try to find out the reason why you were really refused with your spouse visa application and by then, if its any documents that you have missed out then you must provide them and show any proof of your relationship.

And besides Refusal Of Spouse Visa are entitled to make an appeal regarding the application, i think its free so why didnt you do that?

[bher]

hi bher, no my wife is in guimaras island with are 2 children, so i no like you do, its hard not being with are partners, hoping 2 apply again november or january depending on my finances. hope you and your husband are together soon...

sad to hear that junior but we cnt do anything much for now.. i will also tell my husband that the most important docs they need is more on finances right..? so hopefully settle that early..

[bher]

i think if you apply for a visit visa, good chance it will be refused
when did you apply for your spouse visa ?
why didn't you appeal against the decision ?

how long had you known each other before you married?
how many times had you met before you were married?
and how many times since you've been married have you met?

what exact reasons were given for the refusal ?

if your husband is not working, is he claiming any sorts of benefits, invalidity benefit?

does your husband own the house he lives in, or rents etc ?

and does he have any savings in the bank etc???

joebloggs u think they will refuse it again if ever i will apply a visit visa?...
i applied lst year around march and we got the decision by july and its refused bcoz they said not much evidence of daily communication like emails.. but we submitted call history and some msgs on fb and fs and also my husband had probllem with his health that time so he need to stop working..we did an appeal but it was refuse again same reasons! and telling me that i cnt work bcoz my qulification is not into english way or environment something like dat.. coz i am nursing aide graduate.. we met around nov 2006 b4 we got married he visited me 2. he jst renting council apartments.. yeah he have savings..

[bher]

Did you try to make an appeal? Did you meet his friend personally?
How come your marriage is not legal?

pennybarry we did appealed but they refused it too.. long wait..another 7 months for the appeal..
i dunno y they r not convinced that we r leagally married.. it legal pennybarry, we got married to a judge here in p.i.

[bher]

sillybilly we applied lst year march.. and it was refused.. we appealled but they refused it again.. hay wat a life! thanks for the advice sillybilly.. much appreciated!

[KeithD]

They give you reasons why they refused. It is up to you to put together A1 proof of the points of refusal. If this means paying a lawyer to verify certian things then that is what must be done. If you tell us the EXACT reason as worded by the embassy we wil be able to help you more.

[bher]

They give you reasons why they refused. It is up to you to put together A1 proof of the points of refusal. If this means paying a lawyer to verify certian things then that is what must be done. If you tell us the EXACT reason as worded by the embassy we wil be able to help you more.

win2win yup they gave us reason y they refused.. but we supplied all the docs like our marriage certificate from statistic office and the original one.. but y they think stil not genuine? also include pictures together, with my family, and in our wedding day also.. can i ask something, it is really need to rgister the marriage there in Uk?..

[sars_notd_virus]

because they r not convince that we r legally married and our marriage is not genuine.. and they r also asking for personal letters...

hello bher welcome here...

what is the status of your husband before you get married??? is he single....divorced?? annulled??..widowed?? thre seems to be some reason why the ECO says your marriage with him is not legal

[bher]

hello bher welcome here...

what is the status of your husband before you get married??? is he single....divorced?? annulled??..widowed?? thre seems to be some reason why the ECO says your marriage with him is not legal

hello there.. thank you! he was devorced

[sars_notd_virus]

hello there.. thank you! he was devorced

your welcome dear...
did u present the Absolute Divorce Decree papers when you submitted your visa application?

[bher]

your welcome dear...
did u present the Absolute Divorce Decree papers when you submitted your visa application?

yes we did sars... i submitted it in manila lst year march..

[stevie c]

bher when you recieved your rerfusal papers what was the exact reason for the refusal

[sars_notd_virus]

yes we did sars... i submitted it in manila lst year march..

what is the nationaility of your husbands first wife?

i just dont understand why the ECO said your marriage is not genuine???

[bher]

bher when you recieved your rerfusal papers what was the exact reason for the refusal

eco was not satisfied section iii means each of the parties intends to live permanently with the other as his or her spouse or civil partner and the marriage or civil partnership is subsisting; and there will be adequate accomodation for the parties and any dependants w/o recourse of public funds in accomodation w/c they own or occupy exclusively;and... stil lots in paragraph stevie but thats the main ones..

[bher]

what is the nationaility of your husbands first wife?

i just dont understand why the ECO said your marriage is not genuine???

she's english also... thats wat weird about' we have d pics wen we got married to a judge then our NSO marriage certificate..

[stevie c]

but you havent mentioned where it says about the proof of relationship ie daily contact

[bher]

[QUOTE=stevie c;240120] but you havent mentioned where it says about the proof of relationship ie daily contact :d

they said we didnt provide evidence of contact or communication with my sponsor.. but i submitted remittances but they said not enough so when we appealed i tried to find call history for our everyday communication and other fb and fs msgs ... but again not enough they want it like personal everyday email.. like tell ur sponsor wat ru doing within whole day kinda like dat...

[bornatbirth]

eco was not satisfied section iii means each of the parties intends to live permanently with the other as his or her spouse or civil partner and the marriage or civil partnership is subsisting; and there will be adequate accomodation for the parties and any dependants w/o recourse of public funds in accomodation w/c they own or occupy exclusively;and... stil lots in paragraph stevie but thats the main ones..

you said the refusal was for not having contact with each other, ask your hubby to use the forum.

dont bother to apply for any visa until you and your husband think about things out in advance, you should be together already and messed up the spouse visa.

you need to give more details, so we can give you all the advice you need

[stevie c]

[QUOTE=bher;240123]

but you havent mentioned where it says about the proof of relationship ie daily contact :d

they said we didnt provide evidence of contact or communication with my sponsor.. but i submitted remittances but they said not enough so when we appealed i tried to find call history for our everyday communication and other fb and fs msgs ... but again not enough they want it like personal everyday email.. like tell ur sponsor wat ru doing within whole day kinda like dat...

it seems like the eco refused you on almost everything

[stevie c]

eco was not satisfied section iii means each of the parties intends to live permanently with the other as his or her spouse or civil partner and the marriage or civil partnership is subsisting; and there will be adequate accomodation for the parties and any dependants w/o recourse of public funds in accomodation w/c they own or occupy exclusively;and... stil lots in paragraph stevie but thats the main ones..

all of this was used as a refusal also very strange

[stevie c]

bher im sure there are many couples who dnt have contact daily maybe 3 or 4 times a week only

[bornatbirth]

[QUOTE=stevie c;240126]

it seems like the eco refused you on almost everything

the bad thing is when a visa is refused its the lady whos posting and not the hubby, they have been together 2 years and still havent sussed it out

[stevie c]

[QUOTE=bornatbirth;240131]

the bad thing is when a visa is refused its the lady whos posting and not the hubby, they have been together 2 years and still havent sussed it out

it is a very strange case i just for the life of me dnt understand the eco reasoning

[bher]

you said the refusal was for not having contact with each other, ask your hubby to use the forum.

dont bother to apply for any visa until you and your husband think about things out in advance, you should be together already and messed up the spouse visa.

you need to give more details, so we can give you all the advice you need

thats 1 of the of important docs dat we should supply but we dont write letters or we dont send much emails bcoz we talked everyday on skype or ym.. yup i told him that to sign up here so that he will know wat help we can get here from wonderful guys like u bornatbirth...thanks a lot..

[bher]

you said the refusal was for not having contact with each other, ask your hubby to use the forum.

dont bother to apply for any visa until you and your husband think about things out in advance, you should be together already and messed up the spouse visa.

you need to give more details, so we can give you all the advice you need

thats 1 of the of important docs dat we should supply but we dont write letters or we dont send much emails bcoz we talked everyday on skype or ym.. yup i told him that to sign up here so that he will know wat help we can get here from wonderful guys like u bornatbirth...thanks a lot..

[bher]

[QUOTE=stevie c;240135]

it is a very strange case i just for the life of me dnt understand the eco reasoning

if i jst can send the whole result with my spouse visa and appeal result i will so dat u will know the ground we had and the docs we submitted.. its jst difficult to explain everything....

[stevie c]

thats 1 of the of important docs dat we should supply but we dont write letters or we dont send much emails bcoz we talked everyday on skype or ym.. yup i told him that to sign up here so that he will know wat help we can get here from wonderful guys like u bornatbirth...thanks a lot..

but surely daily skype & ym chat records are proof of contact did you submit these with your application

[bornatbirth]

[QUOTE=stevie c;240135]

it is a very strange case i just for the life of me dnt understand the eco reasoning

they dont give just one reason, so they give several and i think the living arrangements was the biggest, you need to start saving the yahoo archive and plan ahead.

1. he needs to get a job and get 6 months statements.
2.get somewhere to live which as room for the both of you.