Both man and the woman are immorals.
As both of them knows that one is already committed and has responsibilities but carried on with the sinful immoral relationship until it ruins the whole family!
It is such a terrible situation going to that part as the kids will get involved.
Based from my experienced, ex-husband was the weakest person i have ever met. I would not have care if he only his woman but getting her pregnant and having an illegitimate child is just out of order!
So i thought we were not meant for each other and i am not having that kind of life, a father of my children and a man i sleep with being shared by other family. No way!
After a few months i couldnt take it anymore, we never argue about the situation but i just found myself falling out of love with him and he wasnt prepared. Instead of me getting the heartaches he did! Im through with it. Sorry it wasnt my fault.
Someone else is not the solution of being sad and homesick away from your love ones. He Should have thought about his famiy and kids before doing that. So now why the hell would i think about the family and my kids having such a miserable and a father shared with someone else. They can have him. We dont need a weak father and i dont need a shared husband!!!
So i tried to work hard and live on my own and raised my children on my own. No support from him.
Its just all about commitments and how you love one another. No matter what comes to you, should think about the future and the responsibilities.
You wonna ruin your family? its up to you...
You wonna keep your family and make it stronger? its up to you....