Go visit http://forum.catholic.org/index.php to understand what those who want to see divorce being legalised in the Philippines are up against.
For me it is a "no brainer" but even more important is the need to ensure that husbands, and ex husbands, continue to support their kids if they desert or divorce. Too often in the Phil men just abandon their families leaving their wives without any means of support. I understand how desperate some of them are but this action needs to be made the "big sin", and not just the break up of the relationship.