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    time

    this question run on my mind quite a long time now but i cant find any answer the question is this when can we say that it is the right time to give up your marriage and being a wife to your husband .. i know its a daft stupid question for those who are married in the first place i am married as as well but curious to other answer


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    i gave up my marriage when my ex cheated on me


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    Quote Originally Posted by rani View Post
    i gave up my marriage when my ex cheated on me
    spot on and thank you for the answer.thats one point as well


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    Quote Originally Posted by kalabasa View Post
    spot on and thank you for the answer.thats one point as well
    well i tried to save the marriage for the sake of my kids but the trust and respect wasnt there anymore.... so there's no point to live with someone if you dont have an inner peace


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    Quote Originally Posted by rani View Post
    well i tried to save the marriage for the sake of my kids but the trust and respect wasnt there anymore.... so there's no point to live with someone if you dont have an inner peace
    thats all you could of done rani is to try your best but once the trust has gone its very difficult to keep the marriage together


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    its time to give up a marriage once you know, the feeling of feeling sorry for you partner and the hatred starts to come into both lives , you will know when the time is right


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    Quote Originally Posted by rani View Post
    well i tried to save the marriage for the sake of my kids but the trust and respect wasnt there anymore.... so there's no point to live with someone if you dont have an inner peace
    i totally agree of you on that. Rani was your husband is english i reckon are you still here in the UK?


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    my ex is a filipino.... i am single here in pinas

    went in the uk last may for a holiday with my kids and friends


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    Quote Originally Posted by stevewool View Post
    its time to give up a marriage once you know, the feeling of feeling sorry for you partner and the hatred starts to come into both lives , you will know when the time is right
    yes but sometimes we have to sacrifice things and ignored those negative feeling just to save the said marriage..in both way we have to balance things but when times comes that too much and being patience in everything can harm us in he end


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    Quote Originally Posted by rani View Post
    my ex is a filipino.... i am single here in pinas

    went in the uk last may for a holiday with my kids and friends
    i see..typical lol..or shall i say almost men not only filifino but at the end we know what we want in life and be satisfied what we have


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    hahahahaha.. you are right!

    but i should also say that its really hard being single... i guess, we need someone to be with especially when we're getting older... talking to me!!!


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    Quote Originally Posted by rani View Post
    hahahahaha.. you are right!

    but i should also say that its really hard being single... i guess, we need someone to be with especially when we're getting older... talking to me!!!
    hey rani your not old in my eyes you are still young


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    when you're not happy with that person and know you never will be again.


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    My ex wanted to follow her career and slowly the things I loved about her became the things I hated about her. When the love has gone, or trust, it is time to quit.
    Remember that this life of ours is not a practice, we only get one chance to be happy, so why stick with an unhappy choice for both of you. Once you realise this and understand this, it is also time to quit.
    If you want your dreams to come true ...... first you have to wake up


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    remember a marriage is between 2 people yes most mat think its the mans fault most times but i bet most men on here are here because its there ex that started the ball rolling , i am very happy with my future , i have emma here and soon to become my partner wife and to feel so much love is a great feeling , before emma well thats the past and that is where it stays


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    Quote Originally Posted by rani View Post
    hahahahaha.. you are right!

    but i should also say that its really hard being single... i guess, we need someone to be with especially when we're getting older... talking to me!!!
    we could talk if you wan too..coz i need someone to speak with..lol


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    Quote Originally Posted by kalabasa View Post
    we could talk if you wan too..coz i need someone to speak with..lol
    give me your msn or yahoo address.. lets talk


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    Quote Originally Posted by stevie c View Post
    hey rani your not old in my eyes you are still young
    you are really a friend stevie


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    Quote Originally Posted by rani View Post
    give me your msn or yahoo address.. lets talk
    john_lock37@ yahoo.com add me my ym name ..john_lock37


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    Well done said Steve


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    Quote Originally Posted by kalabasa View Post
    john_lock37@ yahoo.com add me my ym name ..john_lock37
    are you online? i added you... my addy is manila etc etc


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    Quote Originally Posted by stevewool View Post
    remember a marriage is between 2 people yes most mat think its the mans fault most times but i bet most men on here are here because its there ex that started the ball rolling , i am very happy with my future , i have emma here and soon to become my partner wife and to feel so much love is a great feeling , before emma well thats the past and that is where it stays
    both sexes has its own faulth what matter is who remain tough lol


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    dont have to be tuff, john just have to be honest with yourself and being like that what ever happens in the future you will always know that you did your best what ever the outcome , hope you and rani have lots to say together


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    Quote Originally Posted by stevewool View Post
    dont have to be tuff, john just have to be honest with yourself and being like that what ever happens in the future you will always know that you did your best what ever the outcome , hope you and rani have lots to say together
    i am honest but sometimes being so honest make it harm you at the end and then you regret why u been so good ..


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    i am honest and i ware my heart on my sleave too but i would never change that , i was once hurt but look at me now, yes it has took a few years but i know where my life is going and what a great adventure myself and emma are going to have so dreams do come true to those that want it , you cannot change the way you are its only the way other people see you that changes


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    Quote Originally Posted by stevewool View Post
    i am honest and i ware my heart on my sleave too but i would never change that , i was once hurt but look at me now, yes it has took a few years but i know where my life is going and what a great adventure myself and emma are going to have so dreams do come true to those that want it , you cannot change the way you are its only the way other people see you that changes
    i agree ..we can only keep on trying until the right will come along and always being prepared to take any risk that might come along our way


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    well sometimes the risk is worth taking


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    Quote Originally Posted by kalabasa View Post
    john_lock37@ yahoo.com add me my ym name ..john_lock37
    Hi kalabasa

    I employed someone of that name some years ago, dont be to precise, but what area of Uk are you living.


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    Quote Originally Posted by stevewool View Post
    well sometimes the risk is worth taking
    true the only thing that risk is sometimes annoying lol


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    Quote Originally Posted by Pete/London View Post
    Hi kalabasa

    I employed someone of that name some years ago, dont be to precise, but what area of Uk are you living.
    devon


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