Annulment Advice

[RickyR]

Remember that if he agrees to the annulment then you WONT be granted it, they don't allow collusion. The ideal situation is for the Husband to not agree, but also to not file protest. The law is against you when having an annulment and if she married in a Roman Catholic church, then the situation becomes a lot more complex.
It can be lengthy, and depending on the court can be a drawn out process. The idea of not attending to the court, well that will be very difficult if the procedure is followed correctly. If however a lawyer knows a willing judge, clerk and court who can may have additional brown envelope fees for fast processing then this could all be a different story.
I would agree, that she should consult multiple lawyers, and get a good idea of what she is about to do.

The situation isn't impossible, but she needs to know what she is getting into.

[ghee101]

Remember that if he agrees to the annulment then you WONT be granted it, they don't allow collusion. The ideal situation is for the Husband to not agree, but also to not file protest. The law is against you when having an annulment and if she married in a Roman Catholic church, then the situation becomes a lot more complex.
It can be lengthy, and depending on the court can be a drawn out process. The idea of not attending to the court, well that will be very difficult if the procedure is followed correctly. If however a lawyer knows a willing judge, clerk and court who can may have additional brown envelope fees for fast processing then this could all be a different story.
I would agree, that she should consult multiple lawyers, and get a good idea of what she is about to do.

The situation isn't impossible, but she needs to know what she is getting into.

yes. in my case...i allowed my ex and my lawyer to ruin me. it's ok. that won't appear on the NSO papers anyway.