Do you think that the father of the children will simply accept the fact that his children be going abroad and Alou will be the sole provider and nobody helps her or supports her like a new partner??when at the Philippines the father is the one supporting his children with their education??
IMO, that decision would depend on if his wife could provide evidence that could send him and his mistress to a Filipino prison.
It will then no longer be for him to wonder how Alou can manage to escape with her kids..
That said..Lets leave this type of advise to a reputable Filipino attorney.
Im sure Dave will update us regardless..