Quote Originally Posted by Terpe View Post
Brummieboy
I think there are many more people on this forum who are much more knowledgeable
about annulment than me.
However in my opinion you would be ill-advised to pursue option 2 (presumptive death)
Just how much evidence is needed is a questionable issue anyway.
The fact is that if you followed this option you must accept that the reappearance of the absent/missing/presumed dead spouse would immediately cause an automatic termination of the second marriage.

It seems possible to me that this 'hold' on your new marriage and future life together would doubtless be of almost daily concern.
The potential for 'blackmail' by the presumed dead spouse exists. I'm not saying it will happen in your case, but it exits as a potential threat.
Please think very very carefully.
Just add some of my opinion here and terpe is a bit right and like the opinion of Mr. Fred. It is better to look for a clean papers that can make you peace of mind when you live together.

For Alou, i can say that she need more evidence if her husband have another family like for example the birth certificate of their child if there's any from her husband's mistress. It is one that my friend hand for filing the case against her husband too if she can get it from the NSO much better. Annulment is a long process and things it is not really easy just try to be calm while you proceed on it and get some more information too. We have one client filing her annulment as i am working to the law office, first she paid it 20,000 for the papers to file the court then it is another amount when the case going on depend if they show to the court. We cant really figure out the amount on it coz it is depend on how the lawyer work. If you figure out how much is it means that they earn much then. Just do it for step by step so it less for the expense... good luck to both on you and the annulment case.. hope all be sorted soon