how you manage the bad temper of your husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend, fiance?... better to tell whats wrong or just be quiet?...
how you manage the bad temper of your husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend, fiance?... better to tell whats wrong or just be quiet?...
you definitely need to tell him/her what's wrong..every relationship, especially LDRs, depends on having good communication too aside from being in love..issues will immediately resolved if u talked about it right away.
thats one thing that i don't like bout my husband' he admit that he have bad temper and not much patience with little things... we r opposite! sometimes we talk bout certain issues between us then there are arguements which is normal ofcourse' then i will jst keep quiet, then aftr few mins everything will be ok again' its like nothing happend..Originally Posted by raynaputi
you definitely need to tell him/her what's wrong..every relationship, especially LDRs, depends on having good communication too aside from being in love..issues will immediately resolved if u talked about it right away.
Loads of patience and think the outcome if you both burst with temper and anger
being quite wont help but sometimes it good as to let the temp slow down
with the 3 yrs relationship we have i know i am the one who have lots of petience.. even if im younger than him.. i agree with you' sometimes it doesn't help but sometimes it is.. but most of the time when there is something wrong' he raise his voice and got mad without much reason i prefer to be quiet and not talk totally esp when his here... less talk, less arguements...Loads of patience and think the outcome if you both burst with temper and anger
being quite wont help but sometimes it good as to let the temp slow down
no matter what age gap we have with our partner the temper.bad feelings anger does arisedo not take it seriously just rem everyone is going through this stages of being married.
i guess wat ever age both in a relationship there are really differences esp us its the culture... me even if its jst a light arguement i take it seriously and then i get emotional... bernadette are u also very emotional person?..no matter what age gap we have with our partner the temper.bad feelings anger does arise
oh yes i used to be that ..
but if u wont tell him u have issues regarding him always raising his voice, he would think this is okay and u accept this kind of behavior, which in fact, u don't..yes, less talk less argument..but don't u think your feelings about this wouldn't bottle up in the process? I mean would u not be bothered by him raising his voice if he'll have another bad temper later?
when im quiet he knows theres something wrong.. but sometimes he is not bothered to make a move, jst want me to do the first.. and when he raise his voice i tell him don't do that bcoz it scares me, and he listen.. it jst sometimes he forget and i accept that! we cnt blame ourselves sometimes esp when we r upset or annoyed it shows in our voice and actions.. hes still my husband we have differences and we have to accept that even if its good or bad... thank's rayna...
everybody i think has got that but depends on the couple how she/he gonna cope with that but does not mean you are taking all his temper and just be quite
im not taking all his temper.. sometimes wen its non sense im jst ignoring him and likes nothing is happening.. loleverybody i think has got that but depends on the couple how she/he gonna cope with that but does not mean you are taking all his temper and just be quite
It helps if both partners are dumb
Keith - Administrator
hahahaha,u enlighten me boss lol...It helps if both partners are dumb
Man always wants to be right!!!!
so just tease him and say his abs looks even more sexier when he is on bad temper
''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''
well said sarsMan always wants to be right!!!!
so just tease him and say his abs looks even more sexier when he is on bad temper
sars & dette- wen husband/wife is mad can they stil makewell said sarswhile there is a problem?... jst asking!!!
Isn't that called "making up"sars & dette- wen husband/wife is mad can they stil make
i mean can they make LIsn't that called "making up"while there is a problem?...
of cousre why not do that evrytime to release the bad feelings it helps..sars & dette- wen husband/wife is mad can they stil make
haven't try that yet... hahahha, is that still feel comfortable even if there is a bad feelings?....of cousre why not do that evrytime to release the bad feelings it helps..
why notsars & dette- wen husband/wife is mad can they stil make
ooh definitely it is... i must try that when husband come here, lol...why not
sars, same as women.. we want everthing to be right.. he has a little tummy, so he doesn't have abs lol...Man always wants to be right!!!!
so just tease him and say his abs looks even more sexier when he is on bad temper
just ignore, leave him and go to a quiet place... talk to him at bedtime and tell him how you really feel about it.. but never do the "head on" coz it wont do any good... maybe when he's more older then he will slow down.. hahahathen its vengeance time
dont ignore it count every minutes and everyhour his bad temper arises and at the end of the day give him a nice warm cup of tea to remind his a very loving husband in anyway he actsjust ignore, leave him and go to a quiet place... talk to him at bedtime and tell him how you really feel about it.. but never do the "head on" coz it wont do any good... maybe when he's more older then he will slow down.. hahaha
te rani yeah sometimes i jst ignore and i will be quiet but i wont leave... that wont help for us.. i jst wanna share this' sometimes wen we r having arguements wen we go to bed we don't really talk much.. and i don't say good night and wont kiss him.. im also doing that everytime im upset and mad.. then nxt day we r stil not talking but i make sure i'll make him a tea and food.. then one of us will start the conversation, say wat was the problem and fix it..just ignore, leave him and go to a quiet place... talk to him at bedtime and tell him how you really feel about it.. but never do the "head on" coz it wont do any good... maybe when he's more older then he will slow down.. hahaha
its hard for me to sleep without solving the issue with my partner... i am a crying lady and i always cry whenever i feel bad
anyways, hope that everything will go on smoothly between the two of you...
[QUOTE=rani;245185]its hard for me to sleep without solving the issue with my partner... i am a crying lady and i always cry whenever i feel bad
anyways, hope that everything will go on smoothly between the two of you...
not easy to sleep while there is a problem behind but sometimes we cnt stop our pride... i am also crying lady te rani' i always cry infront of him.. im jst too emotional... then he will tell me to stop crying and give me a big hug and a nice kiss... were ok te, jst had a little tampo lst night to him... thank you te rani...
I used to have a partner with a short temper, and it just brought out the worst in me. If somebody raises their voice to me I can get quitewhich isn't really in my nature
I read somewhere that bad tempers stem from past troubles and there's not a lot you can do to change that in somebody... so i eventually left her
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