Originally Posted by
RickyR
This is good, from what you've said bher it sounds like you have a good relationship and are just adjusting to each other. Being vocal and upfront about the problems can make them much easier to solve and prevent the other person feeling like your keeping something from them. Having a bit of tampo is ok sometimes, but that is also something that western people are not used to and find difficulty dealing with until they learn how to resolve that. Our instict with a wife that has tampo is to walk away and let her cool off, which is probably the wrong resolve in most situations.
Be strong in your relationship, and keep working through the cultural difference's, bring yourself together to create your own way of life and understanding which works for both of you.