I been Scammed

[mickcant]

Hope you get someone decent Mick,your ex was rotten to the core,scheming and manipulative,she certainly didnt deserve the decency and respect she got from a guy like you,I know a very nice lady aged 44,she is a psychiatrist,a very pure lady living in Davao,she would be ideal for a guy like you,happy christmas Mick.

Thank you Tawi2,
I have been introduced to a very nice Filipina by another member here,
We are getting to know each other.

I am concerned that I do not inflict anything in our friendship that my past wife taught me the hard way.

My biggest worry is that now I am retired and do receive some housing benefit towards my rent, that along with having only small savings I will not be able to show that I could support her if we were to develop our friendship into a relationship.

I am worried I could be stringing her along, at the moment I could not even afford to visit her,
She does know how I feel and is ok with taking things as we can.

Mick.

[Doc Alan]

Thank you Tawi2,
I have been introduced to a very nice Filipina by another member here,
We are getting to know each other.

This is good news Mick, it deserves to be in the "Celebration" category
While I can fully understand your caution, you should have the confidence which comes from self-respect and also the respect you have here on the forum. Those people who believe they are always right and never make mistakes simply lack insight ! We all experience unfair events in life. My private messages (here and on facebook), phone calls, and relationships (professional and social) with others are daily reminders ! That's why I can sincerely wish you all the best .

[mickcant]

This is good news Mick, it deserves to be in the "Celebration" category
While I can fully understand your caution, you should have the confidence which comes from self-respect and also the respect you have here on the forum. Those people who believe they are always right and never make mistakes simply lack insight ! We all experience unfair events in life. My private messages (here and on facebook), phone calls, and relationships (professional and social) with others are daily reminders ! That's why I can sincerely wish you all the best .

Thank you Angel04 and Doc Alan
I am still waiting for my Decree absolute which will now be in early Jan hopefully and so am not free untill then anyhow.
Despite how my wife acted I belive if you act honestly you have more hope of having honesty returned.

We will move into the new year with renewed hope

All the best,
Mick.

[aposhark]

Thank you Angel04 and Doc Alan
I am still waiting for my Decree absolute which will now be in early Jan hopefully and so am not free untill then anyhow.
Despite how my wife acted I belive if you act honestly you have more hope of having honesty returned.

We will move into the new year with renewed hope

All the best,
Mick.

Hi Mick,
Just catching up on missed threads (due to punishing work schedule) and noticed this one.
Your situation looks promising.
Although most of us don't really know the other people here in the forum personally, you seem a nice bloke.
I would just like to wish you and your new lady friendship, happiness and good luck

[Arthur Little]

I have been introduced to a very nice Filipina by another member here,
We are getting to know each other.


She does know how I feel and is ok with taking things as we can.

Mick.

Mick, my friend ... I'm delighted to read your great news. In my "book" all of us deserve true happiness ... and none more so than a thoroughly decent man like your goodself - who's gone through so much emotional pain and turmoil in recent years!!!

You're also very well-respected here, as being a guy with a lot of common sense ... hence it's understandable you'll wish to take things slowly at this early stage ... and each of your many friends and co-forumers wish you all the luck in the world! Is she already living in the UK, MicK?

[mickcant]

Mick, my friend ... I'm delighted to read your great news. In my "book" all of us deserve true happiness ... and none more so than a thoroughly decent man like your goodself - who's gone through so much emotional pain and turmoil in recent years!!!

You're also very well-respected here, as being a guy with a lot of common sense ... hence it's understandable you'll wish to take things slowly at this early stage ... and each of your many friends and co-forumers wish you all the luck in the world! Is she already living in the UK, MicK?

Thank you Steve and Arthur for your kind words and good wishes

The lady lives in the Philippines, and if we were to proceed to being together after meeting, I have real worries if I could show that I could support her, in line with requirements as they are now, as I do now since retiring get some housing benift.

Plus of course the other expenses, I do of course realise it is well worth it if it works out ok, but we are very early day as yet.
Mick.


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