my husband and I met twice..... our problem about VISA right now is we didn't know about the bank statement rules etc that there's a need for a certain amount etc.... he doesn't have a healthy bank statement for the past 6 months if the embassy would really require that you have 110 pounds saved money every week... because we spent both our money during his stay here enjoyed going places.... well I guess there's no problem if you are really sure that.. he's the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with... though my husband and I did not decide any wedding during our first meeting well we planned it when he got back to England after a month and then decided to come back here and then get married everything was good on our first meeting.. well I would say sometimes you really don't need a hundred years to know the person or for you to truly feel if you want to spend the rest of your life with that person....
right now he's back in England and everyday feels like a torture without him

although they are right that the more you meet the more chances I guess ... well on my side we really wanna get married that's why we did...