about what happened to your threads, mate ... truly I am! Keith said, "Ask Arthur" [he wasn't meaning Arthur Ask(ey)'
] ... and rightly so, because I'M the person to blame - no-one else! Allow me to explain:
You'll recall having raised two threads, viz- (i) 'Need Some Advice' & (ii) 'What Should I Do?'. In EACH case the content of your introductory posts replicated the other ... the sole difference being that the latter attracted 36 responses - including several of mine - whereas the former received only one reply from a guy called *Ayumbar who, like many on the other thread, empathised with your dilema.
Ayumbar's post came to my attention late last night ... and, as a Moderator, I took the decision to merge the two threads. Unfortunately, in the process, I [somehow] pressed the wrong button as Keith explained. My only plea in mitigation, is that I'm a relative novice in this appointment (mid-July) and consequently still finding my way around in strange [to me] territory.
Once again, please accept my sincerest apologies.![]()