well said, i remember years ago telling my family i had an indian gf, my mum went crazy,, i couldnt believe it after all those years of her telling me i should tolerate any culture, as soon as she thought maybe they would have a new addition who was not white to our family she didnt like it,,, My response was disbelief and i explained they either accept i am happier with someone non white or they can forget I am part of their family.. Times have changed now with my pinay fiance and she could not possibly be treated better than she is by my family. call it racism, small mindedness or whatever you like, but it takes time for people to adapt, and as its said above, who cares what people think, as long as we are happy what alse should matter