Pinoy racism?

[stevewool]

i understand what is being said here, its 2 differant cultures coming together, security and trust is wanted by both partys,i had the feeling that most women wanted a nice life but also has it drilled into them that there family must be supported too by there new life , this may be true in many many cases , eyes wide open there and state what you think should be right before agreeing to marriage or just living together i say,its hard trying to ballance love and feeling and doing what you want also with out hurting others, lots of comments about keep him happy in bed and you can get what you want are funny but also are a worry ,the most important thing in my life now is to be happy and hopefuly emma will be happy too, and if that happens athen everyone is happy , i will not tollarate anyone or anything upsetting our new life together weather its friends or family, life is to short

[tomboo]

i believe it has always existed, being at the wrong place at the wrong time just makes it sound like its a new thing. most of the time its people expressing frustration or just conversation more than racism. we see it at home with all cultures, in the bars people will make jokes about blacks, asians, irish etc, but its a joke and not meant to offend in most cases.

however,, to look at it this way,, when we foreigners travel to asia and fall in love and bring our girl back home we invariably bring a "good girl" back with us, someone who may be sought after in her home town, if it was happening in the uk and several of the beautiful british girls were travelling to asia and bringing back a hubby from there im sure many people would feel the need to chat about that, and most of this will be with resentment