thank you. dont be sorry, i kinda moved heaven and earth to win him back.and to make him realize that even if it's hard, there will always be a way. im a sucker for heartache. when i found the one, i fight for him. i only give up when its really a dead end.
he was excited the other day after he called a filipino community in hammersmith and was referred to an immigration specialist. they had a short talk and maybe coming from a third person and an expert, he somehow understood how hard it is for me to do what he wanted the past few months.
he asked me to write the lady and wait for her advice. it may be a long process but we may take the first step now.