Just a suggestion (I know this is not solicited) but go for inexpensive wedding. You would not want a big wedding and jeopardize about not being together with your husband. Instead of spending lots on big wedding. It will take 6 months to get your marriage certificate in SECPA. It will take 10-15 days to get the marriage license. Your fiance needs to get the local CNI. You have to attend a DSWD seminar and need to get CENOMAR for your future hubby too.
If you really want to be together with hubby, go for simple wedding. You and your hubby and 2 witnesses will make your marriage legal and save the money for spouse visa which is another costly process of being together. Feel and think for your husband, it is your every day marriage you want to live on and not the one day big marriage to impress the relations.