I'm gonna be completely honest here because that's the best way for help.

So I met Ruthie online last year. She was much different than others I spoke to. We started emailing a lot and then eventually are just about 24/7 to each other on Blackberry's instant messenger and occasionally on the phone.

We have both be really up front with our pasts, dreams and incsecurities. And we're definitely in love.

I hope to go and meet her by summer time this year meet herand she wants to start a life in the UK with me. She is good a filipino law and PR.

So can you help advise me? From what I have seen Ruthie can move to the UK for 6 months if we're engaged. But if she moves here on a visitors visa she can't meet anyone for marriage. Is that right? Can anyone help me with our options here? :(

Oh hi by the way. My name's Steve, nice to meet you all.