is it HARD to say SORRY???...

[dontpushme]

... just my 'little' !

Yeah, I know.

Personally, it is not difficult to apologise for something I have done or caused, whether knowingly or otherwise! From what I have seen on the forum during my tenure here, the problem from time to time is that when in tampo the woman may not readily accept said apology!

LOL. From what I see in other women, when they're sulking (nagtatampo), it's better to grovel than to just say a quick "sorry."

If you make a mistake and realise it you should have no difficulty in saying sorry, the problem is in recognising that you are at fault in the first place, I think that is where most guys trip up.

You're quite right. Sometimes men can be so clueless!

just an observation filipinos hardly say the word sorry..well not all. if they do something they just let time heals the gap.

Hey guys, if you're wrong..... then say sorry ... if you know you're 100% right.... then just say sorry anyway.... you want some peace don't you?

Don't ever forget who's boss in the relationship.

i say sorry so much its the first thing i say when i wake up, so for me its easy....besides whats wrong in letting your wife think shes right all the time

It's funny to joke about it, but some people (men and women) do resent being told they're wrong.

[JimOttley]

LOL. From what I see in other women, when they're sulking (nagtatampo), it's better to grovel than to just say a quick "sorry."

On a serious note my partner and I have had a very very difficult time this last few months and I was not the one at fault, I have been applying the male equivalent of (nagtatampo) and I have certainly had little in the way of grovelling in return, much as I deserve it

You are right, without going into details I would have been extremely upset with an insincere apology, long drawn out tampo on my part has been more effective

High dudgeon is a trait that my partner expresses at the slightest misunderstanding and often she has simply completely misunderstood the situation it is painful trying to make everything work out all-right in the end because she rarely see's the direction in which I am trying to help, I love her none the less.

i say sorry so much its the first thing i say when i wake up, so for me its easy....besides whats wrong in letting your wife think shes right all the time

It's funny to joke about it, but some people (men and women) do resent being told they're wrong.

I have read a lot of BAB's posts, I think he is being serious here either that or he has a very very consistent direction to his sense of humour there is a point where you realise you just have to compromise because you love the person.

[bher]

i agree with that jimottley... if you really LOVE your partners sometimes jst to make them happy and stop the arguements we jst say YES/ AGREE with what ever they tell us.. COMPROMISING each other is also one of the ingredients to a HAPPY and WONDERFUL MARRIED LIFE..

[junior02]

Its only hard to say sorry, if you dont really mean it..