is it HARD to say SORRY???...

[Terpe]

met my old friends few days ago and been talking bout our husbands/boyfriends and we have something in common that we chatted about our partners.. complaining why most of men are having a hard time to say SORRY when they commit mistakes or when its their fault??? why they are like that? is EGO involve? or if a guy is older than his wife/gf is it hard/difficult to say SORRY?...

I needed to think a little bit before I gave my own view.
On balance I probably agree.
Why?
Don't know.
But... I know that if my wife says I did something wrong, I initially try to use all kind of 'weasel words' to give reasons why I did something. What I mean is that some other reason caused me to get it wrong rather than me so ... no 'Sorry I made a mistake'.
So means trying to put the blame on something or someone else.
Yep. There I go again.
But..... seems hard for Carina to say sorry also. Then.... if I mention that maybe it's the time for her to say sorry ... well i could be 'tampo' time.

I probably say sorry to all kind of things more than she does.

It's just a human thing ... right.
Sorry

[bher]

I needed to think a little bit before I gave my own view.
On balance I probably agree.
Why?
Don't know.
But... I know that if my wife says I did something wrong, I initially try to use all kind of 'weasel words' to give reasons why I did something. What I mean is that some other reason caused me to get it wrong rather than me so ... no 'Sorry I made a mistake'.
So means trying to put the blame on something or someone else.
Yep. There I go again.
But..... seems hard for Carina to say sorry also. Then.... if I mention that maybe it's the time for her to say sorry ... well i could be 'tampo' time.

I probably say sorry to all kind of things more than she does.

It's just a human thing ... right.
Sorry

.. u will try to blame others or to something else so that carina won't you ha? lol... sometimes i do that, make tampo to hubby but when he talk to me that will be gone.. even if he's not yet forgiven... but for me i stil want to hear him saying sorry but thats very rare to happend hay....