is it HARD to say SORRY???...

[stevewool]

hi rani i think rani you would never have to say sorry

[rani]

hi rani i think rani you would never have to say sorry

because i'll stay single??? oh steve....

[bher]

don't say that te rani.. lots of single men out there whom u deserve for a lifetime...

[stevewool]

because i'll stay single??? oh steve....

rani you may be single for now, but soon you will be happy sharing your life with someone i am sure , but in the mean time you have all us men to talk too

[dontpushme]

my two cents: I think it depends on the way you've built your relationship. I've been in relationships where even I got defensive and did anything to get out of saying sorry. Those were relationships with guys who didn't want to sit with me and discuss what happened, why things were said/done, and what we could have done differently.

I think when I first started dating my bf, we were the same way. But we figured out soon enough that if we wanted to make things work being this far apart, we had to talk things through without letting things fester between us. He's learned to apologise for things he's done, and I've learned to swallow my pride and do the same. We still get back into the old habit of making excuses instead of admitting we'd made mistakes, but as long as we correct things as soon as we notice, it's all good.

Pride is never easy to swallow. It's easier to mumble an apology when you've bumped into someone than it is to admit you've made a mistake when you were damn sure you were doing things right.

For instance ... how many of us have, on the odd occasion, bumped into a lamp'post and found ourselves saying: "Sorry"?!

*raises hand* LOL! I don't think that's the kind of apology she's asking about.

[Arthur Little]

*raises hand* LOL! I don't think that's the kind of apology she's asking about.

... just my 'little' !

[bher]

and I've learned to swallow my pride and do the same. We still get back into the old habit of making excuses instead of admitting we'd made mistakes, but as long as we correct things as soon as we notice, it's all good.

Pride is never easy to swallow. It's easier to mumble an apology when you've bumped into someone than it is to admit you've made a mistake when you were damn sure you were doing things right.

same as me girl.. most of the time i prefer to swallow my pride than not talking to him all day..
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[gWaPito]

For a quiet life, I say 'sorry' every time. Even if I know im right. You asked if it got harder to say sorry as we get older, for me, the answer is no. I was awful in my 20's, I would argue every time. Now, im the opposite. like I said, anything for a quiet life. Not good trying to score points against your wife.