Junior. Her family are bound to be sad to see her and there Grand Children go and in there eyes, it could be for years before they see them again. Remember, its going to leave a massive hole in there lives. Best instil some charity in your heart and give them the benefit of the doubt. From what I know Its best not to bad mouth her family to her. It will only breed resentment and we all know what can happen with that. Try and be diplomatic and chose your words carefully. Think harmony. Good Luck