Hi ranger74,
I too am sorry things have gone this way!
We want to think the best of a partner and loving someone means trusting them.
It’s not much comfort but at least you have found out before marrying.
In my case we married then she had a baby by a Filipino.
Then came to join me in the UK, but she wanted money and a visa only
We parted then I found out about the baby.
We are now divorcing.
Mick.![]()