Originally Posted by
ranger74
Well, after a month, all seemed to be going well. She was still chatting to the guy in yahoo though, which I was obviously not comfortable with, but other than that it all seemed to be going great.
But today I got to see one of their conversations and my worst fears were confirmed. The guy wasn't just a friend. She'd been sleeping with him after I left the Philippines and from the conversation, I gathered that she hadn't told him that she was here in Australia with me (she told me that he knew).
We haven't talked about it yet, but she knows I know. I'm out in my bungalow having a few drinks and chain smoking, trying to wrap m head around what a massive fool I've been and figure out what happens next.
Her flight home isn't for another 8 weeks and she doesn't have the money to re-book it herself. I'll continue to feed and shelter her until she figures out how to get home, but it's going to be awkward. I'm also not looking forward to the humiliation when I have to tell friends and family that we're breaking up. The kids are away at their mother's until xmas eve, but we're supposed to be having xmas dinner with them and my parents. Not sure I can bluff my way through the day.
Hurting and feeling very stupid right now.
I've just read about your problem and I'm really sorry you went through all that before you found out the truth. I hope you don't end up hating all Filipinas after this. Please believe we're not all two-timing, golddigging liars. I realise it's bound to be a disappointing Christmas. I hope you find someone who can and will make you happy. I don't know what I'd have done if I were in a situation like that. Well, okay, I do, and it wouldn't have been a pretty sight.
