well it takes all to make the world go round including melly666, who ever you are, i have dated lots of western women as you call yourself and yes some very nice women at that , but some are not too, just like asia most proberly , but you take your chances and some fail but most dont, seems like you have been hurt too melly was it a westerner male thats why you go to asia to try and find someone that is loving and beautiful and who wants you for who you are, think about it, and please dont tar everyone with the same brush![]()