Hi melly666,
It is not about hitting/offending some people here in the forum.
You should have check yourself if you are in the position.
Many of us here in the forum are happy with our man not because of the passport or money like what you think.
A lot of filipina women in this forum such as me is proud of filipino culture, climate and country despite being a 3rd world nation, at least we are genuinely happy people and mostly contented with the basics of life like family, friends and love ones.
You're comment generalizing western men about a laughing stock for being with an asian lady is an ignorant approach. It is actually sad to know that a western woman such as yourself would discount a man because of his decision/choices in life that makes him happy.
I can only hope that you will empower yourself so you will not feel insecure about your fellow"men's" choices.
Mind you, we here in the Philippines have lesser divorce cases compare to your country... you know why? because we stand by our man.. through thick and thin.. we stand by our vows.. we stand by our principles .. we stand by to the promises we made like love and commitment... we try to relive that feelings to our man the day we said "I do" and keep that loving coming despite years and oldage.. come what may.