We didn't have to go through all that "clap trap" either

...
both of us having been previously widowed and - perhaps more importantly - a bit older than the average couple getting married for possibly the first time.

... I
really do wish the authorities in countries like the Phils would desist from putting so many unnnecessary obstacles - such as those

seminars, the exchanging of Certificates of No Impediment and the CFO palaver - in the way of people whose [genuine] desire is to spend their lives together.