Sorry, I did not say in my original post, the bf was from the UK and she ended it with him when she decided that she wanted to be with me, I did not find that out til about 1 month later though, as she said she wanted to know if I truly loved her. The reasoning behind that I have still not worked out.
I know that she had not seen him for a few months, so know that the baby is mine.
I also know that she cannot come here til she is 21, that was not a problem to me.