Quote Originally Posted by Baliw99 View Post
I know that she had not seen him for a few months, so know that the baby is mine.

I also know that she cannot come here til she is 21, that was not a problem to me.
Hmm ... when someone's married to a person living on the other side of the world ... not being able to be properly together for 2 years is bound to put a considerable strain on both partners. Having said that, you are to be commended for facing up to your responsibilities as a parent if, indeed, the baby IS yours. I think you need to lay your cards on the table in order to reach some form of agreement between the two of you. For instance - since you aren't working at present - would you be prepared to "up-sticks" to go and live in the Philippines?