... you really need to get to the bottom of what's going on here - for the sake of your peace of mind. Initially, I tended to share Joe Bloggs' view that your girlfriend was trying hard to be honest with you ... in spite of - or maybe even because of - her
feelings about the other British guy she mentioned. But there again, she's possibly just a fickle adolescent who doesn't know what she wants
... from either relationship.
