Stage 1 : You go over there and fall in love with her.
Stage 2 : She realises this and starts playing the game now you are vulnerable.
Stage 3 : You return home and she announces she’s pregnant even though you’re not 100% sure she really is. On top of this you don’t know if it’s yours if it happens to be true, but because you’re in love, you want it to be true. She knows this.
Stage 4 : She carries on playing the game. Turning the taps on and off when she feels like it screwing up your head even more and grinding you down emotionally making sure you don’t have the strength to get out of her grasp.
Stage 5 : The ‘baby’ is born.
Stage 6 : She asks for money to support a non existent child knowing that you will because you’re a decent guy, laughing all the way to the bank - and you’re probably not the first victim.
I’m not saying this is definitely happening but it does sound to me you’re getting mugged off although there’s a possibility she could be messed up emotionally not realising what she’s doing to you. She could be genuinely pregnant with your child, but either way you need to lose her for your own sake because she’s messing your head up anyway. Once you’re over her then you can find out about whether you do have a child and act accordingly. It’s the only way.
